Four Resources for Long Distance Relationships
Four resources for those in long distance relationships.
While long distance relationships can be a significant challenge, there are a number of resources available in our technologically advanced culture that can make connecting, dare I say, easier. Here are four of such resources:
- Rave: The app to watch together
Have you ever scheduled a movie night with your long distance partner only to have tech delays and and communication frustrations? Nothing destroys the good intentions of a movie night more than hearing the movie 30 seconds ahead of where you are in the movie.
Enter Rave. From the Rave.io website, Rave allows folks to "watch Netflix, Disney+, YouTube, Prime Video, HBO Max, and more with friends and family while texting and talking in perfect sync. Rave brings people together to enjoy a shared entertainment experience, no matter the distance." There is a free option, or an option to pay that stops advertisements.
Another awesome Rave perk is that you can watch with as many people as you wish - it is polycule friendly!
To be transparent, I am not affiliated with, nor do I receive any compensation from Rave. It is just a wonderful tool for connecting! - Paired: The app for couples
The goal of Paired is to "improve happiness of couple relationships." Note the "couple." If mono-centric options really turn you off, skip to the third. If you are open to it, Paired is a great tool for those in both long distance and close proximity relationships to encourage daily conversations.
The app sends daily prompts to help people connect through sharing the answers. It is based on relationship research, and an independent study found that it increased relationship quality 36% over a three-month period. That is pretty cool stuff.
If you are looking for something to help with not only conversation starters, but also with ease of communication, Paired is for you.
There is a free trial, and then it is a paid service. I am not affiliated with Paired, and I do not receive compensation for this recommendation. I have just heard awesome things from my clients in long distance relationships. - Close the Distance: A Year of Weekly Tasks, Digital Dates, Challenges and More to Keep the Magic Alive in your Long Distance Relationship by Hannah Smart
There is a dearth of good books out there on long distance relationships, but this one I really like and recommend. It provides easy instructions for activities broken down by week of the year. The layout and ease of the book makes it a win for folks looking for ideas to connect.
I particularly like it because it does not assume that those in long distance relationships will eventually live in the same place. It honors that long distance might be a reality for the long term, and that is rare.
While it does not specifically seem mononormative, there are some instances of couple privilege noted. So be warned if that makes you uncomfy.
Unlike the other two, if you buy this book from this link, I do get some change as a kickback. - Long-Distance Relationship Coloring Book: A Cute Love Gift For Couples With 26 Relaxing And Stress Relieving Designs by Brain Delight
Do you want an activity to distract yourself from the distance or a gift to give your long distance partner? The Long-Distance Relationship Coloring Book is a fun little activity book that can provide some understanding and release when you need it.
I highly recommend you get some good colored pencils or crayons and go to town when you feel like long distance relationships suck.
I also get a kick back for this one if you buy it through the link!
Are there other sources you really love and wouldn't mind me sharing? Please let me know!
In curiosity,
Dr. S. Kay Webb
